Next week we’re launching into the second half of the year, so it’s time to make some new commitments.
I was going to write ‘new goals’, but I know that the word ‘goal’ comes loaded with pressure…
You need these cartoons in your life -->
I like them for a few reasons. Firstly, they make me smile! Secondly, I like that they show the division between what our heart wants and what our brain wants. And to ruin the punchline - they often want different things.
Read moreI think you know best...
I think that you know the best answer for you. Rather than seeking external validation, look for people that challenge your thinking and empower you to make choices that you know are right for you.
Read moreAn easy way to influence others
A lot of success in corporate roles comes from your ability to influence others.One of the easiest ways to influence someone and get their agreement is to ask for their advice.
Avoid comparison this Christmas
Comparison-itis is typically enabled by specific members of the family (you know the ones), with comments like: "Do you think you'll apply for a promotion next year?" Here’s 5 tips to help you manage this Christmas…
Read moreYou've just been assigned a new mentor/ mentee, what next?
If you’ve volunteered for a mentorship programme and been matched with someone, your first meeting will be a 'get to know you' session. This is key because, like any relationship, you need to find some mutual ground early on.
Read moreDon't rob us of your contribution
I've noticed that I sometimes censor myself, which means I don't say what I'm really thinking. And I expect I'm not the only one doing this. What are you not saying? At work, home or with friends?
It’s pretty tiring being radar-on all the time. Why not let some of the real you out?
How to earn trust and create impact, fast
Having trust reduces stress and worrying about whether things will get done and to the right standard. So I want to share one great way to build trust - and it's super simple.
Read moreYou are a genius
I think you have a specific kind of genius. There is something you can do better than everyone else. It could be a particular skill, a technique, a thought process. So it's a real shame that the way we're judged in corporate can be restrictive.
Read moreWhy you need both easy and challenging goals
One of the typical habits of a millionaire is that they write down their goals every day. And if you're not an aspiring millionaire, it's also a habit shared by successful sports professionals, entrepreneurs and CEOs.
Don't try too hard or...
Don't try to hard or...you might get hurt. Ever been told that? Even just writing it depresses me! It's perverse logic but we say these things to ourselves (and hear them from well-meaning people) all the time. Whether it's you or not, you need to shut it out.
Read moreHow to Measure Your Happiness
I've said it before, but it's worth repeating - I think 'happy' is the whole point. So we need to learn to adapt our environment at work, or move to a new one, if we're not feeling happy there.
Read moreTrying harder isn't always the answer
We can often be guilty of stubbornly repeating the same thing again and again or trying harder and harder to get what we want, as if brute strength and determination will do it.
Read moreTaking Control
I want to talk about Cause & Effect. Because when you're 'at Cause', you are in control. When we're struggling with our roles, or feeling trapped, or uncertain what next step to take, we can fall into the 'Effect' stage.
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